tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post1770300972022041173..comments2011-08-17T21:13:51.584-07:00Comments on All Our Black Mondays: Firedjediwifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12954739147910581496noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-36128343552680143862010-11-30T11:10:04.454-08:002010-11-30T11:10:04.454-08:00Wondering how it's going and hoping you're...Wondering how it's going and hoping you're hanging in there. People do get hired after this, I've seen it happen.Meadowlarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208672418814503032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-34768393802115164612010-11-19T14:46:09.661-08:002010-11-19T14:46:09.661-08:00I've been married for 30 years and I do have t...I've been married for 30 years and I do have this bit of advice: don't treat each other like the enemy, nobody is at fault. <br /><br />You're a team, so work together and agree to support each other during this time when you both need support.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09534399854356399250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-20277762267967587932010-09-12T10:50:12.488-07:002010-09-12T10:50:12.488-07:00Oh I'm so very sorry. The one good things is ...Oh I'm so very sorry. The one good things is that he 'resigned'. In my neck of the woods that means that he can still get on antoher department by simply saying that the other dept wasn't a good fit and if an ofc resigns, my dept can't tell the new one anything about him bing 'fired'. <br />I know it hurts to be strong, but remember that God is there and He will never give you more then you can take. Be joyful even in this tough time becuase God is with you and will bless you even in rough times. The only book I know is the Bible for this situation. <br />Please keep us posted!! Good luck and ((((((hugs)))))) and email me if you need a shoulder. <br />911R911 and the Randomness..https://www.blogger.com/profile/15124774472813567041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-46806752110492155362010-09-11T21:33:56.022-07:002010-09-11T21:33:56.022-07:00I'm so sorry you are going through this right ...I'm so sorry you are going through this right now. <br />It may not help much, but my hubby and I have found www.daveramsey.com and just about any of his books to be helpful for us. <br />Praying for your family...Genesishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04533744882173635891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-47515113831756018992010-09-11T17:39:11.662-07:002010-09-11T17:39:11.662-07:00"Things don't go wrong so you can become ..."Things don't go wrong so you can become bitter and give up. They break you down so you can build yourself right back up and become all that you were intended to be." I have no clue where that quote comes from, but it's a fave of mine and thought you might could use it. Hold your head up, things will get better, they always do.Deputy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15072138281879237378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-67231669146757777742010-09-11T17:17:15.079-07:002010-09-11T17:17:15.079-07:00JW, I'm so sorry that this has happened to you...JW, I'm so sorry that this has happened to your family. The only advice I can give you is to go to officer.com and see what other LE agencies are in your area that he could apply for and return to the academy. My only other advice would be to not have DH give his boss any information on how he is doing with the wall or any other information of the like. That could have been one reason they let him go. Just let the reports from teh academy go to the boss and let them take care of what needs taken care of. You don't want to indulge any more information then you have to. I hope he finds something soon! <br /><br />KassKass-PWnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-43236481346183876922010-09-11T10:46:53.780-07:002010-09-11T10:46:53.780-07:00The way they treated him is simply UNFAIR, but I g...The way they treated him is simply UNFAIR, but I guess that there's not much you can do about it now, other than to accept the fact that it has happened, that the world is falling around you... Oh my God, I don't even know what to tell you! What I should do is write you a long letter instead, or call you (on your brand new land line!), and be there for you. But right now a friend of mine from Russia is staying with me so I'm swamped and this is the only way that I can tell you that I'm here for you RIGHT NOW AND RIGHT AWAY!!! Don't freak out. I know that's terrible advice. But it is all I can say right now. Take care of each other! Don't fight. You'll need each other's support now more than ever. Try to put all the other shit that's going on aside and be there for each other. Just remain close. That's all I want to say. And that I will pray for you. Hang in there, sweetie. Dostoevsky said "we must fall in order to rise up again"... which is also crappy advice. Eh, Russians!Josefinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08154957028302476654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9214905098786541401.post-40628609535375230632010-09-11T04:39:29.273-07:002010-09-11T04:39:29.273-07:00I am so very sorry. Hang in there.I am so very sorry. Hang in there.Sister Copinherhairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14896140845912858618noreply@blogger.com